na stree swatantryamarhati, was Manu wrong?

Why Modern Women Are Walking Out of Marriages — With No Regret

let me answer 1 point from this article:

Domestic chores not shared by men
Women earn equal to men, but who pays the bills? rent, fuel, buying house, furniture, and biggest expense: jewellery for women, men pay all these.

Women are free to use their income as they like. they may or may not contribute to the home expenses. She may use it as it pleases her. This is Supreme Court judgement.

If the man asks for, even a wee bit of her earnings to pay bills, or EMIs, this is domestic harassment, financial harassment. So what does man get?

Women earn same as men, perhaps more... employers refuse to share the salary details, but in reality men are paid less, as they dont get even a month off as sick leave. They must work overtime at offices, but women must leave by 1830. If they stay beyond, they must get spl security and taxi drop to their door step.

Men? They can be dropped off anywhere. Kutta katliya? hua toh hua!

Women enjoy 18 months maternity leave. Who does their work? the male colleagues right. so overworked 2x but for lesser pay.

Ohh, every working woman needs a maid, and even that maid's salary is paid by the man.

Then why should a man share domestic work?

Whither thou, equality?? Man is screwed from all sides..

and if she wants to walk out, let her, by all means. Why then screw the man for life thru alimony, fake cases of 498A, DV, 377..............

Women's independence is financed by men, in perpetuity.

So, didn't Manu say it rightly? Women are dependent on men, always? then why blame Manu? and Manu Smriti?

married men in India

Pitaji toh mere bachpan mein hi chalbase, maa hi paal pos ke bada kiya: common dialogue in Hindi movies. 

Pitaji khud ke kushi se chal nahi gayei. He died in an accident at workplace, died of overworking, died while fighting enemies in wars. All this high risk activities were done to earn a bit more for the family. 

But movies show/imply: pitaji died due to his indulgences, money woman liquor... died in war is double impact to the woman, today's logic! 

She lost the earning member, and now she has to earn to live. 

The person who died doing high risk jobs to provide her, is of no consequence.

This situation is explained beautifully in the Ramayana: 

Valmiki in his previous avatar as the vicious hunter meets Narada, and Narada Rishi explains to him, what he is doing is paap and he alone must suffer on account of these. Valmiki says i do it for my family so they are also equally responsible and accountable. Narada Rishi advises him to chk with his family. 

Father and mother refuse claiming its duty of son to care, irrespective of the means of his earnings. So its no!

Wife replies: its husband's duty to provide for all needs and necessities of wife and children and maintain them in happiness. She won't care how he achieved it. So NO from her too. 

Then Narada convinces him to do tapas and become capable of writing Ramayana. 

So why are we men breaking our heads to get married take care of wife kids and both sets of parents, but we dont get anything in return. 

Isnt Narada rishi's advice in treta yuga more relevant meaningful important now, in kaliyuga? 

Think deep on this. Any judge in family court will tell u the same what Valmiki's family members told him: its ur duty to ensure ur family is happy and provided with all the luxury they need. Like a Supreme Court Judge said: beg borrow or steal u should pay alimony to ur wife. Even if she is richer than u. 

Carefully consider, analyse: for a glass of milk once in a while, do u need to buy the whole cow?

Op SINDOOR, and its prelude:

25 good men were asked their names ,religion, knickers down to confirm! Yet they proudly said 'Hindu' and promptly shot for their honesty n pride even in the face of confirmed death. They died as proud Hindus. 

सिंधूर is applied by the husband at marriage, but femen argue women are born with it, hence dont lose it when husband dies.  

Why then cry over सिंधूर, which never was उझड़ा? Why avenge something that was never lost! 

Shouldn't the country avenge the lives of those 26 men.

 

Then, logic will change to जो मार्गएं, वो तो चले गाएं,रोने से, याद करने से वापस थोड़ी आयेंगे, फोकस करो जो जिंदा बचा है। 

THIS is the value of a HINDU MALE in India i.e.भारत, founded and named after the manly emperor भरत of सूर्यवंश. 

Mention this, and its immediately proclaimed patriarchal, मरने के समय पर, हम लेडीज़ है, जाने दो भाया। 

Are we so intellectually bankrupted, we dont remember the 25 men as proud Hindus, but grieve over the उझड़ा सिंधूर (which never was उझड़ा) of the behan beti as our beloved PM started his address to the nation and how it was avenged by the death of more Hindu men, the soldiers. 

Whole Nation is beaming over the 2 women officers who did the briefing with Sec. MEA. 

Oh before i forget... 4 women just can't stop gushing abt their newly found kashmiri brothers, इतना की दिवंगत पिता पति भाई को भी भूले।

Any1 know the names of the soldiers who were all men, who died avenging the सिंधूर of those 25 women? Atleast how many men died?

Even PM didn't care. Becoz he didnt bother to mention them in his address. Bad optics u see, to mention casualties in a victory speech! 

Epilogue to my rant: 

 

◇ ABs n simps chastise me for being insensitive towards women. 

◇ Don't rant sentimentally. Think logically. Men are strong, so its ok. Men are strong when its convenient, but patriarchal when its not. 

◇ Believe Modi or go vote for RaGa. 

◇ Unfriending by ABs

I stand for/with men, this fact doesn't make me a woman hater. Now if one can understand this fine distinction. 

Anyways thanks for the time and journey! 🖖

halaal the modern Jeziya

A few mins ago watched a video by Chakravarthi Sulibele, abt economic boycott of peacefuls  I may not agree with other ideas of his, but this 1 made sense. Economics wise. Who boycotted whom, why, and most importantly, what started the game!

He quotes the mandatory Alaal marking on almost everything in India. And peqcefuls are mandated to consume products which are alaal approved. Result is 95% of products are marked.... even hospitals and lifesaving drugs to mundane coconut oil. Many lengthy articles have been written abt process to obtain approval of manufacturing facility periodic audits and per marking fee. Unlike ISO, only alaal topis are accredited to certify. So its a closed ecosystem. Nobody else is allowed to enter their economic system. Isnt this an economic boycott of every1 else by alaal topis?

For reference; BEE asked for ₹10 per FE Rating  sticker per vehicle which costs min. ₹5L, every1 screamed why why why. Here we silently pay even on ₹1 sachet of shampoo. 

Allright let's move on to the real point. 

I read this meme or joke whatever on SM. A wife claiming she put her foot down against her MIL insisting she take bath before cooking. Infact she says she made it a condition for marriage. Both meekly accepted, and she victoriously put his on SM. And a bevvy of followers crooning u go girl. 

My mom always insisted on this. Aleast wash ur face and brush ur teeth before entering kitchen. She had a simple word..  ಮಡಿ. My ex protested vehemently... in fact this was quoted as domestic harassment in court by her. Judge also agreed it was against her free will. Countless Hindus have been admonished, shamed for their following ಮಡಿ, even when it cost nothing. The practice has almost vanished, nowadays. 

But then why do the same ppl  meekly accept the practice of alaal and marking at economic loss to themselves? Why don't they tell alaal topis we won't pay u to get the mark as it has no scientific or legal basis in India atleast. 

Do they accept paying thru their nose for a mark which has no significance is their free will? Really? 

Is it any different from jejiya? Think hard ppl

The great hunger index of India

Hunger is one of the most negatively publicised item about India. as the movie Munnabhai MBBS scene shows, I want to see poor people, hungry people..... Our own moms held hunger as example of what would happen to us if we didnt study well and get a good job. Hunger is a red herring built into Indian psyche.

Now coming to the point, India has set a target to reduce CO² emissions by 30%, and biofuels are 1 way towards that goal. Plants absorb the CO² in the atmosphere and when we use fuel based on them, (not burning as firewood though) they are carbon neutral, no net addition of carbon into the atmosphere, unlike coal, crude oil...

India has experimented with different biofuel raw materials, most famous being the Jatropha, every Tom Dick and Harry invested in this boom. It was supposed to grow on any type of land, needs no fertiliser, rain to grow. Well, grow it did, the seed output was based on the fertility of the land it grew in. BP had started a huge program in India, a world famous project, but silently washed its hands off.

The other program was ethanol from corn, as done in the United States, 1-box systems were developed there, add corn on one side, ethanol flows out from the other... U could make it in ur backyard.. But the falling oil prices made them useless. 

There was talk about using corn, rice, wheat in India to make ethanol, but immediately shot down by the jholawallas as food v. fuel conflict. Lakhs of ppl die of hunger and U want to use foodgrains to make automobile fuel? 

Only alternative left was molasses, which India produces in plenty, but most of it is used for liqueur or chemicals.. those areas are renumerative. None wanted to sell ethanol for blending. Thus, bio fuel program languised for a decade... 

Till it was revived by NaMo Govt. They radically changed the approach, lets use the lakhs of tonnes of food grains which eventually rot in FCI godowns, and make ethanol.

The question arises, why do food grains rot in FCI godowns? 

MSP! Govt promises to buy food grains from the farmers at a promised price: to set a floor level for the prices, and also to build stock of food grains to feed 1.3 billion Indians, if crops fails for any no. of reasons. Prevent hunger, u see.

All in f(g)ood faith, but u see, as with every other govt agency, FCI holds a stellar record for not working well. The grains bought from the farmers are left in the open, for lack of space in FCI godowns, no trucks to transports, or simply becoz the babus don't want to... And once in the godown.... they are stored for atleast 3 years under improper conditions, infested by rodents, mold, rot, finally to be declared unfit for humans, in reality by any living being!

These arent my assumptions. these are declared by FCI and Govt... lakhs of tonnes are destroyed, burnt, to prevent misuse. NaMo Govt proposed to use these grains to make ethanol and blend with gasoline.They also proposed to use excess stock of grains left behind after distribution to PDS. There is a significant amount of grains left behind, and that eventually ends up being burnt.

Now, the hunger vultures entered the arena.... Numerous claims about how this could spark off a food v. fuel conflict and deprive poor people of essential food. The rich will use that to drive thier big motor luxury motor cars, blah blah blah...

Why are people hungry in India?

 India once exported exotic foodstuuffs to all over the world. How did we come to this state? Many reasons. there are different explanations about monsoon failure, how food grains were exported to feed the soldiers fighing the 2 worldwars etc etc.

Balh blah blah, as the teenage eco warrior says.

Reality is India is one of the biggest exporter of rice and sugar.... If we are a hungry people, why are we exporting? 

Coming to sugar, India offers subsidy for every kg of sugar exported to keep the production price competitive in the global market. This is Govt.s own admission and promised to remove subsidy as per WTO agreement. Well, we wanted valuable foreign exchange, so we starved ourself and sold the food... granted.

Now, why are the damaged food grains burnt by FCI? Obviously, to prevent misuse, stupid. But what use, forget misuse, will any1 have of foodgrains unfit for human consumption? 

In the early part of 2010's a huge quantity of rice was discovered at Chennai port, destined for export to SE Asian countries.. The export of rice was banned. (My colleagues where were transferred to Japan for 2 years couldnt carry 100kg of rice with them) Ban was to prevent further increase of rice price from ₹80/kg ( it rose from ₹20/kg in  matter of weeks). The most surprising part of this discovery was the packing... still in original FCI packing. How come? Whispers of how food mafia was stealing from FCI godowns etc etc, and the entire thing was hushed up like it never happened..... This is the reality.... The food grains distributed by PDS are of the quality even animals cant eat, but there is a backdoor via which good quality grains reach the open market. Meaning, the grains meant for poor hungry ppl never reaches them. 

 Meanwhile, we taxpayers pay twice for the same product. 1st time when Govt. buys these grains at MSP, using our tax money, and 2nd, when the same is sold back to use at 2x price in the open market......

Now, can u understand why so many articles about food v. fuel conflict, hunger, poor under nourished people.. India's low rating in the Global Hunger Index?

GoI wants states to use the spoiled grains lying with FCI, but some states want to use their own paddy stocks? Why so? Wont using fresh edible stocks of food grains spark more hunger, than using stale rotten food grains? 

Think a bit more, ur grey cells will give u the answer.... We all know it, but feign ignorance!!!! 

Did Modi ask to do this

Opened a newspaper on Magzter after a loooong time. What I saw was

1. O² scam

2. Remdesivir scam

3. Hospital bed scam(BLR)

4. Scam while releasing  dead bodies to kin

5. Firewood scam at cremation grounds, illegal demands!

6. Opposition leaders screaming abt inefficiencies and failures

The list is endless! And the colossal stubbornness of refusing to wear mask, and maintain physical distance, phew!

 

Are these not the main reasons for the spread of 2nd wave? Did Modi ask/order/beg anyone to do any of the above activities?

Why blame him for our stupidity. He had asked state govts to be prepared with O² infra, hospital infra...... any 1 state worked on this? 

 Modi's real mistake is assuming 2nd wave will not hit India. Well, this was the opinion of many medical experts globally. Atleast the news articles all said so. 

2nd mistake is allowing Kumbh mela, and elections in 5 states.

There are whispers of conspiracy theorists, the new mutant was deliberately introduced into India. Lets keep it aside.

donkey, who?

I slog like a donkey n pay taxes to Govt.

Govt provides free/ subsidized seeds fertilizers, water, pesticides to farmers. Then same Govt buys those food grains at MSP. And farmers don't pay taxes on any of those transactions. 

Govt. sells this food grains back to me. I pay from my remaining money. 

Now I buy a new phone, new vehicle, or some furniture for my home, or a new home for which I must pay EMI 30 years into the future! What am I called? Shameless!  Becoz there are 1000s of farmers struggling to produce food for us and u enjoy all these? Shame on u. IT dept says.. saale humne itna tax vasooli aur phir bhi itne saare kharedein... kahan se aayein paise..  bol. Black money hain naa. 

Thoughts ehh ppl!